Fully face, and accept, the truth of your situation.You can’t fully let go of something until you have first taken it into your hand and grasped it.You may have to sob, or yell, or lie down despondently, or stomp your feet — or all of the above. I believe that it is your responsibility to heal it up to the 70 percent ceiling of healing, that you have access to on your own, and that the last 30 percent must be healed by using others as mirrors for your process. Depending on the depth of the wound, this may take a matter of days or a matter of years. It’s one thing to tell yourself that something that you fear about yourself as being unlovable is actually very loveable (using affirmations or journaling, for example), and it’s another thing entirely to allow yourself to be experienced in the midst of your pain and have another person tell you that you are indeed loveable.
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